Yup lol.
For reference: this is on my 55 main and not item related.
I helped form a guild about a week after launch, guild leader and I were friends at the time, for like a year before classic WoW, he knew I was casual as I have a full time job, wife, kid, etc., and he is an alcoholic with no job…lives with parents…whatever…never judged him nor said a word til this situation. He actually took the guild lead role because of this, or I would have (probably should have). I also like to joke around in chat with people (not about life situations like the GM’s, just random things).
Over time, the guild leader came to resent me I’m guessing because of my real life and my joking around? IDK. Came to a head the other night and had to leave guild because he began aggressively messaging me and lectured me for over an hour regarding how terrible I am personally and how I shouldn’t be using substances myself and if I want to be in the guild I need to take it seriously, that everything is a casual joke to me, and throughout insulted me with several names I cannot say here.
There’s a way to go about these conversations with members you think aren’t going to take it seriously (I don’t seriously game, I’m a filthy casual, I Pug dungeons, I sit and listen to music and grind/not interacting with guildies, etc), or aren’t playing the right spec for the raid, aren’t being good about threat or dps, or even just because they are new and don’t understand the fundamental mechanics of the game, etc, etc and there’s a completely wrong way to do it.
Insulting and attacking people is not the right way to do it.
Obviously I left the guild because personally attacking someone over a video game? That we don’t have similar playstyles? Ridiculous. But I spoke with some of the guildies last night and this morning though and we’re going to roll the opposite faction on a new server 'cause they’re also fed up with the leader’s fickleness, so I guess a win to poach a few? Lol