Did the original TBC come out when maybe you had no worries in the world ? Log in, play WOW, get loot and hang with friends 
Now you have a job, family, kids etc.
With what little spare time you have for yourself you just want to be able to log in and play with some old/new friends and have a good time and get some gear.
Well your in luck
Pandemonium is a new hardcore raiding guild recruiting all roles. Raid times are Tues/Wed 7-11pm ST. Soft res loot system. PST for more info. Have a great day