Well, this is a complete aside to the topic, so we could potentially take it over to something like English or Linguistics StackExchange, but of course the way that words work is that common usage tends to dictate the meaning, and those who record the meanings in dictionaries attempt to capture that meaning, not dictate it.
In any case, we seem to have stated our opinions on the topic here. It’s totally fine if we don’t see eye to eye. I appreciate you spending the time to share your opinion with me.