Hi there Tokyogirl and friends 
It sounds like our guild might be a good fit for you. We’re a largish community that treats our members like family, with zero drama allowed. We started as a group as long time wow friends and have grown to make so many more close friendships. (We’ve even had a RL get together in Vegas, and hope to plan more RL adventures once things are a bit less risky )
You can check out our website for more info: evolvedgaming .org (take out the space)
Anyway, I am going to post our ad now, just b/c there’s a lot of good info there. I hope to meet you in game soon!