I agree. Personally, I think the issue more lies on the maps itself than widowmaker. Some map like Havana third point enable snipers way too much. At the same time though, part of the issue is also coming from lack of counter play against the widow from the support class (besides reddit lucio).
The argument against this is that it’s not the support’s job to counter the widowmaker, but the tanks like winston, d.va and wrecking ball (or mirror widow from your ally DPS). But you can’t always rely on your teammates to counter the enemy heroes in ranked, especially in lower elo. So lacking in counter-play against widow as support especially when she is popping off and not being contested can feel oppressive.
On the other hand, even though the support roster doesn’t really have a good counter option against widow like they do with brig against flankers. At least they have a sniper of their own which is ana who can heal safely behind cover without giving enemy widow any LOS most of the time.
What I’m saying is that widowmaker (like doomfist and hanzo) is frustrating to play against as support because of one shot potential. And what does a DPS typically prioritize on? Killing the enemy’s backlines, which are supports. It’s more of an opinion than anything and you’re free to disagree with it. And in low elo, picking ana tends to work out better for me most of the time over mercy or zen against enemy widow. I’m not saying everybody should swap to ana against widowmaker in every elo.
You were saying that “Supports don’t have to peek widow. Supports getting picked off by her is almost always due to poor positioning”. And I showed you an example of rank 1 zen player frequently dying to a diamond widow in havana.
If even a rank 1 player is constantly dies to a widow in diamond rank, what chance would an actual diamond zen player have in surviving against widow? My point is that you can still die to the widow even if you think you’re in a safe position.
And if you’re too cautious and worrying about never getting one shot by a widow, you’d literally be playing behind cover all game and not doing anything. So there’s always a risk when you’re playing support and facing an enemy widow. Sometimes, you do have to put yourself in a slightly more vulnerable position to be able to do your job. And you don’t always die due to “bad positioning” either, sometimes the widowmaker will position herself to you.
And yes, it’s true that this applies to all roles including DPS. But again, enemy DPS tends to first prioritize taking out supports. And support’s job is to die the least so that they can keep their teammates alive.
I put quite a lot of effort trying to explain this. I don’t think I can explain anymore. If you still don’t understand or disagree, than we can agree to disagree and call it a day.