I use voicechat and I know, you cant be a shy little mouse when it comes to online games.
At example, in the beginning of a match when I join vc and say “Hi” sometimes somebody is like:
“Harrr, its a girl ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)”, Or:" Giirls arr not video games!" and other [Forum Moderator Note: Redacted obscene language]. I ignore stuff like that and keep making calls.
But sometimes, things get heavy in the match and then I often hear sentences I cant and wont ignore like “Go back to kitchen!” or “Sure, we are losing, we have a girl in our team…”
Thats the reason I wont join voice chat in my next match… -_-