Forced 50/50 not real. The reality is just as bad though

Where is this stated?

This is how it should be, yes?

This is basically how it is.

There is a large variation in skill at a given SR, but that is because SR/MMR is inaccurate. It is not caused by any hidden MMR mechanism. Among other things, for active players, MMR and SR are in sync (Overwatch Forums). So inaccuracies in SR are matched by inaccuracies in MMR.

To summarize the system:

(4) Overwatch Forums “In Overwatch, whether your MMR goes up or down is contingent on winning or losing. But there are a number of factors that determine how much that rating goes up or down.”
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