Your experience is your experience, but I just don’t get that at all. Maybe it’s because I mainly play QM, but the few times I do tell people to rotate, it’s either met with apathy, people rotate, or people don’t, we get behind, and eventually rotate, and the least likely outcome where people never ever rotate which happens, but is in extreme minority of my games.
I do not get why healers and tanks get so invested in soaking to the point they would quit like Queen. To take up those duties yourself and then get mad at THEM for rightfully calling you out for doing their job inefficiently so they can die faster isn’t the better solution. And even if those situations are not ideal, that’s just being a bad tank and healer.
Sure, I get annoyed if people don’t rotate after many waves. But honestly if people want to spend time in mid, as a healer, a role that highlights your strengths in team fights, that’s like playing into my hands. More often than not we just dominate the mid lane. Then, all you have to do is ping the empty lanes. And more often than not, people eventually disperse.
Like when Queen says something like this, I just do not believe them. If anything, people are much more tolerant of crappy healing because most people are really bad at it and just give you the benefit of the doubt. A person that’s dying 10+ times? That will brutally get called out by the whole team.