Everyone on my friend list can log in and out with no issue. Even my wife can, on the same network. But I get in a queue with 50+ minutes left and have tried verifying files and closing everything down, but no luck.
There is an official thread for this here: [Main Thread] Infinite queue PC game problems - June 6th 2023 - #15 by StriterAlfa-1662
A couple of people, including me have the same problem. You are not alone, even if that is probably no consolidation 