Off topic, mmo suggestions

Still play D4 with the wife, but, our schedules are not going to give us more than maybe a few hours / week to play together. So i am looking for some suggestions for a mmo that would be worth the effort. I Tried to get back into wow over the weekend but, just couldn’t… retail is overly confusing, as for wrath and classic, i played those way back when… just looking for a fresh start with a fresh game…if anyone has any suggestions/experience with said game they are suggesting.

If you want to try an extremely challenging and fun game I’d recommend p99 EverQuest, but it’s not for the faint of heart it can be very brutal