The real problem in this is ancestral aspects are so damn rare. Not only do we have to wait for ancestral items drop there’s no guarantee they’ll have the top value aspects when they do.
So you’re doing pretty well to be at 16/21 on most of your aspects. I’ve got 60+ hours farming on my Spiritborn and have some stuck around 13/20.
Everything this season feels like work instead of a game. Everything is a brutal slog to eke out a 1% improvement here or a +5 there. There’s no obvious path to getting better except for luck. And the places we’re supposed to be able to “target farm” are still lousy drops with bugs like crashes taking the fun out of it.