Input Lag (extra words for character count requirement)

So when I step into a rift or grift, there is a 3-5 second delay that prevents me from being able to activate any of my transformation skills, i.e. vengeance, wrath of the berserker, etc. Normally it isn’t a big deal but some rifts have mobs right at the entrance and depending on the rift, this can lead to me being one shotted for lack of DR. I chalked it up to being on Xbox, however today while farming keys with another DH he was activating vengeance instantly… Ive tried multiple controllers, remapping buttons, and multiple Xboxes but still the issue persists… Does anyone else have this problem? Has anyone found a way around it? When farming keys I can just activate before I step into the rift, but I cant do that when pushing grifts… any suggestions?