If it is selfish to want a better game for everyone, then I guess. But not in any version of reality.
Sorry, but handing out everything to players instantly, does not make for a better game. Saying that they should need to play the game to unlock things is not selfish, just common sense in game design.
Should all enemies in the game also have an option of killing themselves the moment the player enters their zone, because that would offer players more freedom to play a pacifist build? Is there a limit to endless freedom?
Sure, and why dont all characters just start at lvl 100, and have a million skill points? You are depriving others who just want to fill out the entire skill tree 3 seconds after opening the game (or however long it takes to open the skill tree and press the “Fill out the entire tree” button.
How about having 5000 items slots so I can equip all legendary and unique items at once. Surely preventing that would be selfish.